Curious to know if you have a lazy partner? We will school you. It is never easy being in a relationship with a lazy person. It is frustrating, plain annoying and might eventually lead to the end of that relationship
Here are a few ways to know your partner is lazy
1. Constant teasing
Suprised? Let us explain. Teasing is good and it can be a way of flirting and getting the other person’s attention. But, sometimes the incessant teasing becomes rude and condescending.
Hurtful teasing is the wrong way to get the other’s attention. When this type of teasing is taking place, it shows your spouse isn’t taking the time to really show you that he loves you; which he should be showing you every single day.
2. Being too busy to help
We know we are all busy with the demands of life, but we should never be too busy for one another. Each spouse should be able to help around the house, help with children, help run errands, etc.
Even though rest is necessary, no one person should constantly be glued to the bed while the other runs around feeling completely stressed and overwhelmed. This will only make the spouse doing it all become bitter and hold resentful feelings toward the one enjoying all the relaxing time to him or herself. Never forget that marriage is a partnership.
3. Always saying no to date night
Frequent date night is vital in a successful relationship. This is the time when you can focus on each another. You can communicate and solve problems together. You can laugh and remind one another why you fell in love in the first place. If the opportunity for a date night comes up, you should both be jumping at the chance, not turning it down.
4. Not taking care of himself
Very few people end up marrying a perfect husband, particularly after several years of marriage and a few kids. However, this doesn’t give him an excuse to let himself go. Regular hygiene, daily exercise, and monitoring your blood pressure, cholesterol levels and weight loss or gains are all important for both yourself and your marriage.
When they feel good about themselves, they are happier; they are more willing to help, participate in activities and show love to their spouse, which is you.
5. Having no desire to cherish life
Think about the laziest person you know. Do they want to do anything? Do they find joy in anything besides laying on the bed eating plantain chips? A critical sign that your spouse is turning into a lazy lover is that he no longer cares about the special moments you guys should share.
They don’t care to create memories that will strengthen a relationship and a family. They don’t care to take pictures, go out of the house or spend time as a family.